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How to Terminate rudeness with good manners

(3:15) Rudeness can kill. It's time to learn good manners.

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dananddiana dananddiana (1042 days ago)

Sorry to see you go. Hope you can find a way to ignore the insulting people and get back to discussion and debate with the rest of us. I have certain trolls that pop up and throw racist comments at me on most of my Boreme posts Kinda shows what a lot of people are like when racist comments get a lot of likes. I just ignore them . You should also not respond to the people that you find offensive. Be happy and healthy. ....Diana

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Sorry to see you go. Hope you can find a way to ignore the insulting people and get back to discussion and debate with the rest of us. I have certain trolls that pop up and throw racist comments at me on most of my Boreme posts Kinda shows what a lot of people are like when racist comments get a lot of likes. I just ignore them . You should also not respond to the people that you find offensive. Be happy and healthy. ....Diana

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London1 London1 (1004 days ago)
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You're just another bloated farty Yank!

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You're just another bloated farty Yank!

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Guest: (1042 days ago)

fu*k off you ni**er CU*T!

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fu*k off you ni**er CU*T!

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Guest: sammy169 (1042 days ago)

Please dont go chengland. You MAKE this site. Seriously.

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Please dont go chengland. You MAKE this site. Seriously.

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Guest: Submitted as a guest (1042 days ago)

I had a truely Voltair relation whith you Cengland0 - I did not agree with you at all in Any of your worldly perspectives, but I would at Anytime defend your right to present your views to the world.

..but boy we are far from each other, and you made my own belives solid.

Cheers Cengland0.

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I had a truely Voltair relation whith you Cengland0 - I did not agree with you at all in Any of your worldly perspectives, but I would at Anytime defend your right to present your views to the world.

..but boy we are far from each other, and you made my own belives solid.

Cheers Cengland0.

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Guest: Submitted as a guest (1042 days ago)

PS: turns out... i'm a fekin' homo and i would like to suck your dick cengland0

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PS: turns out... i'm a fekin' homo and i would like to suck your dick cengland0

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cengland0 cengland0 (1043 days ago)

Farewell Boreme. In the beginning, it was nice having civil conversations with your users even when the discussion was controversial. I liked hearing the views of others and tried to understand why they had different views than mine.

Things have changed and the site is no longer fun. People call others names and use colorful language that I don’t enjoy seeing but that’s fine since I believe in freedom of speech. It’s especially disturbing when you reply to the wrong person one time and then are called a liar for the rest of your life for that mistake. Mistakes does not equal lying. Being called a liar is not freedom of speech but defamation and many have been sued for that.

It’s unfortunate your users cannot have a reasonable discussion. Some of the problems are caused by allowing unregistered users to post comments. Perhaps you could change your model to require an email validation and the users to login before they can comment in the future. Just something to think about.

You have many of the same videos as other sites. Fail Blog, for example, either has the video a day or two before you or will soon get it after you post it. I had no real reason to visit your site except the user base seemed smaller so I could have a continuing conversation with the same users day after day. The other sites have so many users that I only recognize a couple of them as regulars. Since continuing conversations is no longer a reason to come to this site in particular, I have no encouragement to come here anymore.

Your videos are awkward to view. The embedding code that you use still relies on flash so I cannot view them on my tablet or smart phone. That is not a problem with other sites because they use HTML 5 instead. I can also use enhanced YouTube features such as hitting the space bar to pause the video but that does not work on Boreme. Other sites allow me to turn on close captioning and fast forward and rewind and playback at faster or slower speeds.

The last straw was when I tried to understand the views of others regarding Income Inequality. I was unsuccessful in keeping the conversation on track as if your user base as ADHD or something. It made me annoyed and frustrated.

Your users know that I work for a bank and that’s fine but they take the opportunity to find anybody who has ever worked for any bank on the planet and point out that a person broke a law. They use that to somehow accuse me of criminal activity or at least that’s the feeling I get. When I ask what career they are in, they refuse to tell me because they know I can find criminal activity in their field too but it still doesn’t stop them from making it clear that they have a “death to all bankers” philosophy.

The site makes me depressed and I don’t need any more depression in my life. I’m going to leave for now and will use the additional time to focus on my careers and try to better myself. I wish you and your users success in the future. I could come back eventually when my depression issues get better but I’m not sure how long that will be – if ever.

Hope everyone enjoys their life and I wish them well.

Thanks.

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Farewell Boreme. In the beginning, it was nice having civil conversations with your users even when the discussion was controversial. I liked hearing the views of others and tried to understand why they had different views than mine.

Things have changed and the site is no longer fun. People call others names and use colorful language that I don’t enjoy seeing but that’s fine since I believe in freedom of speech. It’s especially disturbing when you reply to the wrong person one time and then are called a liar for the rest of your life for that mistake. Mistakes does not equal lying. Being called a liar is not freedom of speech but defamation and many have been sued for that.

It’s unfortunate your users cannot have a reasonable discussion. Some of the problems are caused by allowing unregistered users to post comments. Perhaps you could change your model to require an email validation and the users to login before they can comment in the future. Just something to think about.

You have many of the same videos as other sites. Fail Blog, for example, either has the video a day or two before you or will soon get it after you post it. I had no real reason to visit your site except the user base seemed smaller so I could have a continuing conversation with the same users day after day. The other sites have so many users that I only recognize a couple of them as regulars. Since continuing conversations is no longer a reason to come to this site in particular, I have no encouragement to come here anymore.

Your videos are awkward to view. The embedding code that you use still relies on flash so I cannot view them on my tablet or smart phone. That is not a problem with other sites because they use HTML 5 instead. I can also use enhanced YouTube features such as hitting the space bar to pause the video but that does not work on Boreme. Other sites allow me to turn on close captioning and fast forward and rewind and playback at faster or slower speeds.

The last straw was when I tried to understand the views of others regarding Income Inequality. I was unsuccessful in keeping the conversation on track as if your user base as ADHD or something. It made me annoyed and frustrated.

Your users know that I work for a bank and that’s fine but they take the opportunity to find anybody who has ever worked for any bank on the planet and point out that a person broke a law. They use that to somehow accuse me of criminal activity or at least that’s the feeling I get. When I ask what career they are in, they refuse to tell me because they know I can find criminal activity in their field too but it still doesn’t stop them from making it clear that they have a “death to all bankers” philosophy.

The site makes me depressed and I don’t need any more depression in my life. I’m going to leave for now and will use the additional time to focus on my careers and try to better myself. I wish you and your users success in the future. I could come back eventually when my depression issues get better but I’m not sure how long that will be – if ever.

Hope everyone enjoys their life and I wish them well.

Thanks.

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Guest: (1043 days ago)

Good-bye-ee, good-bye-ee,
Wipe the tear, baby dear, from your eye-ee
Tho' it's hard to part I know
I'll be tickl-ed to death to go
Don't cry-ee, don't sigh-ee
There's a silver lining in the sky-ee
Bonsoir, old thing, cheer-i-o, chin, chin
Nap-poo, too-dle-oo
Good-bye-ee.

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Good-bye-ee, good-bye-ee,
Wipe the tear, baby dear, from your eye-ee
Tho' it's hard to part I know
I'll be tickl-ed to death to go
Don't cry-ee, don't sigh-ee
There's a silver lining in the sky-ee
Bonsoir, old thing, cheer-i-o, chin, chin
Nap-poo, too-dle-oo
Good-bye-ee.

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ReligiousNut ReligiousNut (1043 days ago)

You are probably why he's leaving. I will miss his comments. Even if I didn't agree with everything, it was at least entertaining.

Good bless you.

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You are probably why he's leaving. I will miss his comments. Even if I didn't agree with everything, it was at least entertaining.

Good bless you.

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London1 London1 (1004 days ago)

Good riddance you bloated fart.

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Good riddance you bloated fart.

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Guest: SAT-A-NA (1042 days ago)

fu*k off you old fart!

and never come back!

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fu*k off you old fart!

and never come back!

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Guest: Dr Jaded (1043 days ago)

I am truly sorry to see you go. I did not agree with most of what you had to say, but, what would be the point of that! Take care and I hope that I will encounter your comments one day in the future.

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I am truly sorry to see you go. I did not agree with most of what you had to say, but, what would be the point of that! Take care and I hope that I will encounter your comments one day in the future.

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Guest: (1042 days ago)

hey everybody! cengland didn't delete his account! so we can continue to reply to any of his comments with our own abusive ones and he'll continue to receive emails.

Make him snap!

MUAAA HA HA HA HA!

fu*k you cengland zero!

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hey everybody! cengland didn't delete his account! so we can continue to reply to any of his comments with our own abusive ones and he'll continue to receive emails.

Make him snap!

MUAAA HA HA HA HA!

fu*k you cengland zero!

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Devil Devil (1042 days ago)

We will be seeing you soon down here.

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We will be seeing you soon down here.

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WalterEgo WalterEgo (1043 days ago)

I assume you are talking about me when you refer to 'income inequality'.

I so wanted closure on your claim that you were skeptical about everything. I asked you to question a core libertarian belief, that "fend for yourself" works better than "fend for each other" , by simply giving a real-world example where that was the case. You couldn't, or wouldn't. I asked over and over and over and over... but to no avail.

It seemed to me that this was fundamental. If it rocked your foundations, then that's a good thing isn't it. If not, believe me, you're not being skeptical about EVERYTHING.

I genuinely enjoyed our conversations, and I learned a lot from them. I hope you did too. After all, wasn't that the point? Education is a bustling square, not a one-way street.

Believe it or not, I will miss you. Maybe we'll meet again some day.

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I assume you are talking about me when you refer to 'income inequality'.

I so wanted closure on your claim that you were skeptical about everything. I asked you to question a core libertarian belief, that "fend for yourself" works better than "fend for each other" , by simply giving a real-world example where that was the case. You couldn't, or wouldn't. I asked over and over and over and over... but to no avail.

It seemed to me that this was fundamental. If it rocked your foundations, then that's a good thing isn't it. If not, believe me, you're not being skeptical about EVERYTHING.

I genuinely enjoyed our conversations, and I learned a lot from them. I hope you did too. After all, wasn't that the point? Education is a bustling square, not a one-way street.

Believe it or not, I will miss you. Maybe we'll meet again some day.

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Blong Blong (1042 days ago)

Cary England, American banker - 2012 - 2015.

R.I.P.

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Cary England, American banker - 2012 - 2015.

R.I.P.

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Guest: (1042 days ago)

the mind of a 3 year old genius baby... in the body of a 80 year old man...

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the mind of a 3 year old genius baby... in the body of a 80 year old man...

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TheBob TheBob (1043 days ago)

Je suis cengland0 - oh no, wait. That's something else.

I'm assuming you refer to me when you say, " It’s especially disturbing when you reply to the wrong person one time and then are called a liar for the rest of your life for that mistake."

Classic Cary tactic. That's just one of the documented porkies, dissimulations and misrepresentations you were called on. You focus on the red herring and duck the substantive issues.

"Being called a liar is not freedom of speech but defamation" (It's not defamation if it's true) "and many have been sued for that." (So sue me).

Here's a parting gift for you. It's said that the real meaning of your communication is the response you elicit (i.e. not so much what you say, as the reaction you have to deal with from the other person).

The reactions people on this site have had towards you are quite unique and strong. Nobody else has attracted the same quality of comments from other users as you have.

Your valedictory post tells us you have found these comments depressing, so I invite you to consider, "How have you been responsible for eliciting these depressing reactions from other BoreMe users?" Until you understand that, you'll keep producing the same reactions from people around you.

I have found you annoying, pedantic, dismissive, dishonest, abusive, frustrating and slippery as an eel. And I will miss your contributions and the opportunity to arm-wrestle.

Where you stumble, there lies your treasure.

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Je suis cengland0 - oh no, wait. That's something else.

I'm assuming you refer to me when you say, " It’s especially disturbing when you reply to the wrong person one time and then are called a liar for the rest of your life for that mistake."

Classic Cary tactic. That's just one of the documented porkies, dissimulations and misrepresentations you were called on. You focus on the red herring and duck the substantive issues.

"Being called a liar is not freedom of speech but defamation" (It's not defamation if it's true) "and many have been sued for that." (So sue me).

Here's a parting gift for you. It's said that the real meaning of your communication is the response you elicit (i.e. not so much what you say, as the reaction you have to deal with from the other person).

The reactions people on this site have had towards you are quite unique and strong. Nobody else has attracted the same quality of comments from other users as you have.

Your valedictory post tells us you have found these comments depressing, so I invite you to consider, "How have you been responsible for eliciting these depressing reactions from other BoreMe users?" Until you understand that, you'll keep producing the same reactions from people around you.

I have found you annoying, pedantic, dismissive, dishonest, abusive, frustrating and slippery as an eel. And I will miss your contributions and the opportunity to arm-wrestle.

Where you stumble, there lies your treasure.

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Tsuki Tsuki (1043 days ago)

Just before you go, please oh please tell me where the Sheba is. Please? Everyone else here is so stupid.

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Just before you go, please oh please tell me where the Sheba is. Please? Everyone else here is so stupid.

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